In this blog you will learn;
Are you and your friend (or husband) exactly which boat?
you see no way out from the hassles?
Are you tired of the grind or you live alongside each other?
Is some romance in not remotely in sight?
Then you have probably already tried everything to improve your relationship (or sex life).
Maybe you have had already endless conversations ... and doubt now even to leave him.
Wait a bit.
A relationship is in fact not just lost. You can recover much more relationship than you might have thought.
Why you ever fell for each other is probably still present. Which should only be dusted and polished here.
How do you do that, read in the following relationship tips.
Tip 1: Accept that your partner is not perfect - and it never will be.As relationships last longer and the pink cloud drifting away, more and more things on the table that you did not know in the beginning. Turns' he suddenly did not keep traveling. Or sneak to smoke while you have such a hated it at ...
The idea of a perfect partner is a utopian thought which is fed by movies and music. Fortunately, you do not have to be everywhere common agreement. Reality is harder than a screenplay ... the reality is not perfect.
But neither do you. Although you will think certainly this is not the case.
The simple solution to this? Let it go. Accept that he was once so.
You will not suddenly a cigarette smell wonderful and you will not magically no longer appropriate in an adventure trip, but that does not mean that these differences are insurmountable.
What you can do? Deciding that it is not bad that you differ herein.
Stop worrying, bags and nag.
Accept that the situation is so and leave it for what it is. This way you invest in a future together.
Tip 2: Your relationship make better by listeningThere are books written about communication between men and women.
And especially how we differ in (on Venus and Mars, and so). All well and good, but really not so complicated communications needs into the base.
Do you know why?
Men and women all want the same thing: to be happy. Relationships are an important foundation for happiness and no one likes a fight. (Okay ... almost none).
To be happy together, it is clear communication between you is very important. Fortunately, that is very simple. It actually requires only one skill: listening.
But what exactly is listening?
Listening is not:
Tip 3: Be attentive to each otherFind your guy's blood annoying when you sit down calls during studio sport with your best friend (this goes for every man). Keep in mind there.
Be a little considerate to each other.
Often, this is in the beginning of the relationship not a problem, but this issue protrudes only later on the head. And that is certainly not just for men ..
Women make perhaps rather know they put a bunch of flowers in his time on price, but men appreciate such a sweet gesture, too. So if you want a better relationship, you not only help biggest gestures, but also the little things.
Tip: Find that sweet gesture in another angle: coffee, food, sex, movie.
Tip 4: In a good relationship, you have a life outside together.Ok beware. This is a very important one.
People always say that they understand this until they fall in love. When you're madly in love you can pour yourself suddenly halsoverdekop in a relationship. Your love is your life and other life disappears.
But if you always spend less time, then you find out that your partner can not fulfill your needs.Maybe you expected that, but that's precisely the problem.
Many relationship problems have to do with unrealistic expectations. Which you probably have ...
Why did you ever in your husband? Because he was such a nice guy? Or because he would function as well as a sister or best friend?
Probably the first (hopefully the first!).
In a good relationship do not have to do everything together. Indeed, if it is a little less in the relationship a little more time can be better make each other without the relationship.
Your best friend is perfect for drinking tea and gossiping. Your sister you can shop endlessly and to your mother, you can fine cry.
Do not expect a man all these roles takes on. Then wait for disappointment.
Do not try to change him. Appreciate him even though he is good at.
Tip 5: Rely on each otherTrust is the basis of every relationship.
Who violated? Then it will take a long time to come together over. Yet you have to ... If you want at least together.
Read this article if you want to know how you can restore a relationship after a breach of trust by cheating.
Life is like you always have doubts too stressful to his word. Is he really at work? Is he really friends? That is not doing. Not really. You better make your relationship by taking the view that he speaks the truth.
That's how you do that;
Because you can never really control each other; you can not always be together. So confident that he just loves you so much, if you know him.
If you can not, then the relationship is doomed to failure.
Tip 6: Your relationship make better by identifying how you feel"There's not hear anything"
But secretly, there is obviously something ...
Caps that! Men are not clairvoyant and also have hated subtle hints.
Just say what's going on - how difficult it is.
Do not walk on your toes - but that only generates frustration
Do not twist around - you better be ready
If you say what's going on, problems solved much faster. Or at least debatable.
Tip 7: Avoid mosquito which is an elephantnot too much sitting together on the lip. Bale you out of the toilet which always stands up or the familiar cap that is not on the toothpaste?
Is it really such a disaster to which cap there myself just to turn on, if you know you bothered like that? It takes much less energy than an argument.
3 simple relationship tips that give your relationship more air:
It is important that your small things also indicates small ....
Krop irritation persists, but give things when they occur. Then it would be no discussion.
Tip 8: Make time to work on your relationship.Work, children, hobbies, social life ... time flies. And then you can sometimes forget to make time for your partner.
There is, after all, when you come home ....
Would you also like to keep?
It is important to have enough time to each other freely. Many relationship problems arise because partners simply too little time free for one another and to live alongside each other.
Tip: Plan it if need be. A regular date night each week for example. This prevents you to live alongside each other.
Tip 9: Make sure the time is spent together really wellDo you have time aside for each other?
Make sure you also are really your attention ...
The other will feel assured if you really just think of your work or sitting watching TV with one eye.
Make it so quality time with.
A few such hours can give your relationship already a good boost.
Tip: Take a night off to each of these questions to ask to get to know each other better. That's not all fun, but also brings you closer together.
Tip 10: A better sex life can make better your relationshipIs your sex life is no longer what it used to?
Talk about that.
What needs do you have? What do you miss, what you think is important? In a good relationship is all part of a good sex life.
Poor - whether or less often - sex is the cause of many relationship problems. good sex can make your relationship better and is better than long conversations.
Intimacy for most couples indispensable in a good relationship. Yet shoot the crazy enough quickly with in.
Would you like your sex life (and relationship) improve? Follow these simple tips:
Tip: Massage each other
you do not dare to talk to him about your sex life? Then you're not alone. After being together for years, the threshold can to try to correct larger something new. Each massage is a good way to ensure that you are both relaxed or even get excited. Talk about your fantasies is only a small step.
Tip 11: You can improve your relationship by breaking the rutYou are in a rut?
All days the same, to play all holidays and sex routine?
Then it's time for something new. But what?
Breaking the routine of a relationship, really does not have to be complicated:
But above all: do something different.
Why this works so well has to do with your brain.
Memories you share together happier. you always go to the same neighborhood pub, then something crazy happens in your brains:
They add the memories together.
But do you do anything else? You create a new reminder.
The more memories you have together, the happier you will experience the relationship.
You may do everything from deep sea fishing to follow surfing lessons, hiking on vacation or just once in a very different restaurant food you have never been either.
Tip: Go together at dance class. You share each other's space, moving together, you let yourself be guided by him (and for that you have to work with) and he holds you firmly in his arms.Dancing is intimate. Such an experience to share with a loved one is a great way to improve your relationship.
Another plus: It is guaranteed to some funny moments.
Tip 12: Improve your relationship by laughing togetherWhy always so serious? Yes you have problems, yes it is not tasty.
But keep it in perspective and laughing together.
Your argument or discussion as to break and break the tension:
This does not necessarily mean that your discussion points need not be discussed anymore.However, it does decrease the sharp edge of your argument.
Tip 13: It may surprise you, but therapy can solve real relationshipWould you not only improve your relationship, but there are serious (re) problems? Learn here how you can restore relationship to a fraction or quarrel .
Does not it?
Then do you perhaps need some professional help to these "down" to overcome.
you still love each other?
Then therapy might be an option.
Now I do not believe very much in the effect of therapy in itself, but there are some advantages.
But it may just provide that extra boost.